Membership is our way of staying close.
Join a circle of women who see fashion as ritual and self-expression as luxury.
From open inspiration to exclusive rituals, each tier connects you to the heart of Lily Gray — where intention meets style.
EXCLUSIVE
The Ritual Society
Enjoy private styling sessions with Lily, early access, and members-only events. A sanctuary for women who live intentionally.
OPEN MEMBERSHIP
The Lily Lounge
A free space for inspiration, journal notes, and early collection news from Lily.
Join the Lounge"The Ritual Society made me see fashion as a form of self-care."
- Sarah
"Every message feels like a quiet conversation with Lily herself."
- Amanda
"Joining felt like being invited into a home built on intention and grace."
- Riley
Exclusive
The Ritual Society
A private circle for women seeking depth and connection. Includes one Personalized Styling Session with Lily, early access to new collections, and intimate member gatherings.
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Benefits include:
Styling sessions
A private virtual styling session with Lily where silk and scent become tools of self-expression, helping you explore how to dress with intention and create a style that feels beautifully your own.
Private Invitations
Receive private invitations to exclusive gatherings curated by Lily, from trunk shows and salon nights to moments of reflection such as group meditations and shared rituals of calm and connection.
VIP Gifting
Enjoy thoughtful gifting as a Ritual Society member with handwritten notes, signature packaging, and a birthday gift that brings a moment of beauty to your day.
First access
Receive first access to limited-edition pieces and private invitations to member-only wellness rituals, meditations, and creative moments, along with The Ritual Journal curated by Lily.
Welcome Box
Discover your Ritual Welcome Box curated by Lily, filled with thoughtful surprises such as a silk keepsake, a scent sample, or a handwritten poem to begin your journey with beauty and intention.
Free shipping
Enjoy complimentary shipping within the US on orders over $300, and local delivery to bring your By Lily Gray pieces with care and ease.
Open Community
The Lily Lounge
A welcoming space to stay inspired. Enjoy access to stories, rituals, early product news, and gentle reminders to reconnect with yourself and your style.
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Benefits include:
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Seasonal rituals
Each season, I’ll share rituals close to my heart—simple practices in breath, stillness, and presence to help you come home to yourself, wherever you are.
48-hour early access
Be the first to explore each new collection with 48-hour early access. A gentle head start on pieces made for your season, your pace, your story.
Styling Visual Boards
Step inside Lily’s world of inspiration with seasonal visual boards—featuring her styling notes, mood references, and the pieces she’s loving now.
Special discount
Enjoy a one-time welcome gift: 10% off a virtual styling session or 5% off select pieces. Yours to use within 30 days of joining Lily Lounge.
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Full access to exclusive capsules, private styling sessions with Lily, and early event invitations.
The Ritual Society is €150 per year and renews annually.
The Lily Lounge is our free community space — open to anyone who shares our vision of mindful luxury.